3 No Miss Tips to Get Back Boyfriend Quick!

Do not start feeling helpless and lonely. I know it hurts, I get it.You are not the first nor the last. There are millions of people who have recently broke up. Thousands of people have discovered a secret recipe to get back boyfriend in a hurry.

You have more than likely found no less than a dozen books on how to get boyfriend back, well the next sentence contains what they call advice. Forget him and move on. There did that help? I didn't think so. What you need are real advice you can use to get back boyfriend. Here is a beginning.

1. Gather your composure and reclaim your self respect.

Stop panicking. You need to realize that even though you feel rejected and hurt, life will go on. You need to gain just a little perspective on what has really happened. I know you might believe your life will not be the same again, it will, whether or not you choose to get boyfriend back, and yes it will be your choice not his. I bet you have broken up with someone before. It might not have been as serious looking back, but I bet it didn't seem that way at the time. So, now is the time to develop a plan and relax.

Now regain your self respect. If you are the ex that constantly sends texts, pm's, voice mails, etc. QUIT NOW. Nothing is less attractive. If you want to get back boyfriend, stop trying to pull him in. This is counter productive, and will actually push him away.

2. Agree with the break up.

This will be hard, but you must do it. When you agree it was a good idea, he will be massively confused. This is not what they expect. You are supposed to be mad, upset, beg, plead, haunt them, anything but agree. You are not supposed to react this way. Something far more important than his confusion is gained. Men are not complicated. They enjoy the chase. And they want most what is just outside of their reach. They want what they cannot have. If they think they can have you back in an instant, they will not want you. Painful but true. When you agree with the break up, they will think you have moved on before them. This is extremely powerful, and is the required first step to get back boyfriend.

3. Do not contact them.

For at least three weeks, do not contact them. Don't send them emails. Do not leave them comments on MySpace or FaceBook. Don't call. Don't text them. Pretend they do not exist. Use this three to four weeks to have some fun. You will hear things about your ex, under no circumstances look at their profile on MySpace or FaceBook. They will not forget about you, so relax. As a matter of fact, three weeks is when they will miss you the most. Now post the pictures of the fun you have been having on your MySpace or FaceBook. Trust me, he will see them.

Perceptions are reality. If he perceives you no longer need him, and have moved on, he will find you irresistible, that is the way men are wired , and they cannot resist it. If they contact you, and the vast majority of them will, that is fine. But you must not initiate contact. Another benefit of the no contact period is they will remember only the good things and forget the bad.

If you inadvertently run into them somewhere, be cheerful and appear upbeat, make small talk and excuse yourself. Do not talk about the relationship. Nothing will drive your boyfriend back to you quicker than when they ask how you are, use some mystery with an I'm up to something sly little grin, you know the one.

These three steps will work the majority of the time. When they do not, and even when they do, this article is not long enough to outline everything you should do and say. There is a no fail recipe to follow to insure you get back boyfriend.

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