Why Seducing Women Isn't As Hard As You Might Think

What does the word seduce mean? Seduction actually implies an unethical persuasion, one designed to mislead someone innocent into doing your evil bidding. Imagine yourself as Darth Sidious and you have the right idea of seduction. However, when you hear the term "seduction" nowadays it carries a much more direct, sexual connotation. The truth is that you're not out to seduce anyone—you just want to have more sex, and the sooner the better! (And the more the merrier, first come first served, right?)

Of course, many men complain that taking a woman to bed is much more difficult than it should be. This is how the term "seduction" came into play. Men, who were so sexually frustrated at the number of rejections suffered at the hands of women, decided that they would "seduce" women for their own sexual pleasure if necessary. You know what? Back in the old days, when your grandmother was still a perfect 10, this made sense. Back then, women were more restrained by the scruples of a moral majority-controlled society. It wasn't ladylike to have sex just because a woman desired a man. The sexual revolution took care of this for a while, but just a few years later and then sexually transmitted diseases scared them all back into hiding.

Today, thanks in part to aggressive sexual education campaigns (for adults and for children), safe sex innovations, along with advances in Internet technology, we are experiencing a bit of second sexual revolution. This is good news for you, the excessively horny man whose love for beautiful women knows no end. The only problem is, despite all of this sexual revolution happening many men still don't understand why they are being rejected. What gives and why no love for the purple-helmeted warrior that makes so many sacrifices all in the name of freedom? The problem is these men are still stuck in the early 20th century. They are still trying to "seduce" a woman by conforming to behavior that is outdated and insulting to the modern woman of today. The modern woman of today, a few exceptions obviously withstanding, enjoys sex and wants sex. Women are very similar to men in their sexual makeup; the only major difference is that women are usually turned on emotionally, while men remain visual lovers.

If a man approaches a woman with sex on the mind and comes across like a creepy Vegas pimp, then he is only appealing to the woman visually. He is offering no emotional depth, no emotional challenge or anything besides opportunity. And that's one thing that women have plenty of: opportunity. If you lose interest in your current crush, rest assured three other guys will start following her around to pick up where you left off. Therefore, in order to elevate yourself into a higher class of lover, you need to appeal to the woman emotionally as well as visually.

Have you been told that women enjoy expensive gifts, constant praise and affection and friendly-to-a-fault courtship behavior? You were misinformed! You are not trying to "seduce" a woman. You just want sex and you should convey that thought through body language, eye contact, heavy flirting and extreme confidence. The biggest mistake you can make is in assuming that a woman doesn't want sex and has to be deceived into saying yes. Women want to say yes! Like any successful pro, you have to sell the sizzle in your, er, steak.

By remaining true to yourself, and stripping away the outdated, genteel approach of the repressed Industrial Age, you will start to charm women with your funny and endearing personality. Be yourself and don't be afraid of sex if you want it that badly. Gore Vidal once wrote "I never miss a chance to have sex or appear on television." Now that sounds like a philosophy worth embracing.

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